Become a Proactive Parent and Build a Family So Strong that NOTHING Will Be Able to Tear You Apart!

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Hey Mom,

Have you ever asked yourself these questions?

 “What will my children be like when they grow up?”

Would they resemble our current generation? Would they rebel against the law? Would they live an emotionally, spiritually and physically healthy life? What would they do if they are offered drugs? Would they become workaholics? Will they be happy? Will they be ready for life? Will we get along when they are older?

These are tough questions to ask, but we MUST face them… otherwise, our kids will grow up before we know it and life would have raised them like a vine without a lead.


When I embraced my child for the first time, 19 years ago, I had no idea there would be SO  many things I had to learn to become a "good" parent.

I still remember how difficult it was learning to be firm...but not dictatorially firm...loving, but not over indulging... protective, but not over-protective and the list goes on and on...

As I look back, I wish someone would have taught me how to raise six powerful and amazing children.

And I am sure that if you are reading this, you want to learn how to raise the absolute best children possible, for their own good.

Having emotionally healthy adults is every parent's goal, but FEW parents actually know how to accomplish this. WHY? Because nobody taught us.

Ironically, healthy parenting and relationships are the key to life, yet no colleges teach it and we lack the information to carry it out. Most of us grew up in dysfunctional homes and lack the right upbringing and confidence to break the old and broken patterns of parenting.

"Old School" parenting just doesn't work anymore- "My Way or the Hightway" only gets children to jump ship, leave the home early and causes a huge emotional disconnect in the parent to child relationship. "New School" parenting is much more loving, but has created children without discipline and without care for the world.

But there is a better way- the Building Character with Children way!

I want to invite you to dream about what your family could actually be like-

A family that loves each other, honors each other, lives with integrity, is united and gets along.  A family that lives with transparency, helping each other, lifting each other up- a family that is there for each other when times are tough. A family that brings so much joy to your heart that it bursts with love and delights the very essence of your soul and spirit. 

These families are far and few between, but THEY ARE POSSIBLE and with my help you will accomplish this- THIS IS MY PROMISE AND MY MISSION IN LIFE.

I've created a program- Building Character with Children- to help you accomplish your parenting goals.

I GUARANTEE, if you apply what I will teach you, you will enjoy the benefits of increased confidence in your parenting skills and better yet, you will enjoy the delights of a happy and peaceful family.

Building Character with Children will absolutely transform the way you are parenting and training your children, even if your parenting is already "good!"

If you are surviving, you will become stable- you will have certainty. If you are stable, you will THRIVE!

Either way, you will take your family to the next level of joy, peace, harmony and delight!

It is time you finally enjoy the much needed rest you deserve, because it's time for your family to live as a family and contribute to all the work at home.

It is time for you to learn how to build ties so strong THAT NOTHING CAN TEAR YOUR FAMILY APART- not drugs, not alcohol, not broken sexuality, not bullying, not family feuds, not disrespect, NOT ANYTHING!!

Introducing...Building Character and Strong Work Ethics with Children

This program is VIRTUAL so I can help you wherever you are in the
world! Perfect for All Ages!

Everything I am offering you is a winning combination!

PLAIN AND SIMPLE- Here is all you get in the Private Members Area:

Private Community Forum

It is always best when we can use a community environment to learn from one another. In this forum, you’ll be able to learn from other family’s struggles and successes. What works for others and how you can apply it to your family. This will prove to be one of your best resources!

4 Weeks of Intensive Parenting Boot-Camp

In the training, you'll get 1 weekly online module (for a total of 4 weeks).  I'll teach you to simply and quickly implement:

  • No more laying down the law or "my way or the highway" strategies that don't work!
  • Responsibility, inner discipline, initiative, obedience and strong habits in each of your kids
  • Simple “tools” that will make all the difference, so your hands are not tied
  • Establishing a healthy and powerful family culture and vision to move your family forward and help you relax
  • Detailed plan of action to get your entire family doing chores...happily!
  • How to pick resources to help you build character and how to use them
  • How to use chores and work to build character in your kids and the step by step way to train them to do chores
  • How to find the reason why you get stressed out or angry with them and how to completely stop those negative emotions once and for all!
  • The Easy ABC's and 123's of training and discipline- what to do and what NOT to do!
  • Develop a strong mission and vision for your family and start setting goals that will propel your family forward
  • Get a firm understanding of the emotional needs of your child, while you heal the wounds caused by your parents
  • And this is just the TIP of the iceberg!!!! Read on...

Who is this Special Training for?

  • Parents who want to win the heart of their children because they recognize that a heart to heart connection brings joy, happiness, peace and harmony to family life.
  • Parents who are determined to raise children of character and strong work ethics because they understand how crucial this is in a person’s life and in today’s world.
  • Parents who absolutely know their family is here to impact the world in a very unique way through a ministry, business or idea.
  • Parents who love their children enough to improve their own emotional health, because they know their own upbringing may not have been the best and know very little of how to raise emotionally healthy children, who understand boundaries, emotional stages of development and ways to heal the heart.
  • Parents who are ready to take action, and know that time keeps passing by and our children are not getting any younger, and that without a solid plan for the family, we will never be able to accomplish what God has put us here to do.

Who is this Special Training not for?

  • Parents who are happy with having “good” kids.
  • Parents who have surrendered to the “way things are” and feel there is no hope for their family or their future.

No more fighting uphill battles or feeling like your back is against the wall when trying to raise your children!

These are the Principles  ALL SUCCESSFUL parents know and do to raise up a loving and strong family.

  • You will learn valuable principles so that YOU TOO can have a strong relationship with your children, so they will respect you, obey you and honor you.
  • You will learn proactive ways to build up character in their life, so that they will be responsible for themselves and would in turn help around the house and in due time, contribute to making our society better.
  • You will learn what an emotional adult looks like, so that YOU can transform and then you can teach your children to take care of their emotional health.
  • You will learn to set goals for your family and define your family culture and purpose- crucial things that 99.9% of families don't do...and pay dearly because they don't!

What Will Happen Inside this Program?

You will build a solid family vision and mission so that you will create an amazing family culture.

You will learn how to implement character and strong work ethics seamlessly into your schedule.

You will have support and a strong community to propel you into your family destiny.

You will heal your parenting heart from childhood wounds and beliefs that are keeping you from being the best parent you can be.

There aren't many times in life where someone truly shows you the way. This is your chance! I am going to walk you through every single principle, step-by-step, so you know exactly WHAT to do, WHEN to do it and HOW to do it.

Double Whammy Fast Action Bonuses...Oh Yeah!

Step-By-Step Training Video

We could all use some step-by-step training, don’t you think? That is why I provide this video to show you an actual training session with my daughter. You will learn the process of training on chores- from what to say to what to do. It’s like having a personal coach to guide you in the comfort of your home!

Age Ready Chore List

I have included this much needed chore list! This list breaks down the different stages of maturity in children and recommends the chores each stage can be performing efficiently. You will refer to this list often! Printable PDF format.

Favorite Resources

Compiled by Shirley, this list is your ultimate guide to finding wonderful character resources! From resources for parents, to picture books for little ones, read aloud books for the family, books on manners, audios, movies and more! This is an invaluable list of safe and useful character resources that you can use to continue to train in character for many years! Printable PDF format.

Character Traits

Over 50 positive character traits with the negative trait listed accordingly. Includes the definition of the positive trait so you can use this list as a checkmark to study and set goals for each of your children. This is an invaluable tool! You need to know what the traits are, so you can work on them. Printable PDF format.

Character Quotes

110 of the best character quotes by famous men and women in history! This is one of the best ways to get your children to understand and embrace character traits. Use this list for discussion during dinner and encourage character efforlessly! Printable PDF format.

Ebook- Stories Worth Re-reading

Written by various authors, these stories are worth re-reading! With titles like, “A Little Child’s Work,” “Their Word of Honor,” “How Nick Learned Manners,” your children will delight and embrace in the character traits exemplified throughout these pages. An amazing book for read aloud time! Printable PDF format.

Ebook- Teddy’s Button

Originally written in 1896, Teddy’s Button captures the hearts of every child and adult that reads it. Teddy’s young and mischievous passion for a button brings him into contention with a little girl. Teddy realizes he is at war with himself and how difficult it is to make good choices! Still he perseveres and does the right thing at the end! Nobody in your family will be the same after reading this story! Truly Life Changing! Printable PDF format.

GRADUATION BONUSES- Winning Combination!

If you are not using the techniques I teach inside Building Character with Children, you are not playing with a full deck . I assure you this program will fit you like a glove and everyone will walk around like a happy camper...no if's, and's or but's about it!!

Workshop- “I Love You, but Sometimes I Don’t Like You."

In this workshop, I share the developmental stages we all go through and how to use them to guide you in building strong character and a better relationship with your children, especially during the TEEN years! This is everything I learned when my relationship with my oldest son almost went sour!

Workshop- “Preparing Sons for Life, the Mom’s Part.”

In this audio workshop, moms will learn what active things we can do to help our boys live out the magnificent man they are inside. This is one of my favorite talks...you’ll have a blast and you’ll learn a lot!

Workshop- “Real Books and Real Life for a Real Education.”

You will learn how to build relationships and character using books and real life experiences with our children. I will share about different experiences that helped us build stronger bonds using books and going places!

I help you put two and two together...all of these resources have a calendar to help you use them little by little...no overwhelm and no stress!

There will be plenty of support for you to learn how to properly raise your kids! By the end of the four weeks, if you apply what you are learning, you will not only see a cleaner house, but you will be overjoyed with peace and rest as you see your family beginning to work together and getting along with each other. In essence, your family will do a one-eighty (180) turn! This program is perfect if you have children 0-18.

Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

This program is unlike anything you have seen before...my main goal is to give you the best of what I have learned and over deliver in every promise I make to you. You really are taking no risk by buying now, because the risk is on me...if you are not fully satisfied, I refund your money within 30 days.

What Others Are Saying:

I found myself trying to force my children to obey and consider others. After listening and implementing the principles learned in this program, our days are smoother and I feel like I am actually focusing on the most important thing…character!

L. Holley, Kansas City, MS

My daughter and I were very impressed with your children. She couldn’t believe that your son was running the cash register on his own. They were so well behaved and it is apparent it’s not only outward. They have such confidence and peacefulness about them. You have such a gift for speaking. Your content, as well as your style is a pleasure to listen to. You were very organized and clear and that helps everyone to follow and learn.

T. Diaz, Florida

You have been an INCREDIBLE source of encouragement to me!!! Your information and knowledge has been so helpful!


Shirley, this training video is sooooo helpful!...Talked with boys today about doing some more chores and they are really excited to help. I'm going to focus on one room at a time. We are going to work in the kitchen, then the bathroom and then laundry. My boys are excited to help out! I'm looking forward to working together and having a little more help keeping the house up. Thanks Shirley Solis!

LaToya Edwards

Thank you for the discipline tips Shirley! I can't wait to watch this video again with the hubby! Last night's class was awesome!

Jacqueline L.

Just to let you know that working as a team has helped my daughter and I a lot. Much less "burning love" driving me crazy and making me loose it easily. Less fuzz and more effectiveness. Thank you Shirley!

Roxana V.

Shirley, as always you are blessing my socks off! Thank you so much for this course. It comes at a GREAT time for our family. You and your family are such a wonderful example for all of us!

Cassie G.

Initiative...what a positive way of putting that they do the thinking. Great things are happening and much freedom in it. Thank you so much!

Jennifer C.

Just listened to your workshop Shirley. I especially thank you for your PDF! We are always in search for "character" type books. So nice to have it all on a list too!

Christine B.

So appreciated last night's class. I am learning SO much and this time of learning has helped our time of learning at home greatly this week. Thank you Shirley for offering this wonderful class to us all.

Kim K.

Just think...how much would 1 hour with a counselor cost to resolve JUST ONE of these issues? (bad behavior, struggling relationships, teen rebellion, terrible two’s, messy kids)

Or better yet, how much would you pay for sanity and peace of mind to know your children are
each doing their part in the family?

What price would you put to breathing an atmosphere of peace in your home, where everyone
gets along and resolves conflicts painlessly?

Honestly, I think sanity and peace in the home are priceless!
Knowing my children have a strong foundation in character is priceless as well!

That is why I wanted to make this course affordable enough so EVERYONE who is serious
about improving their relationship with their children and is serious about developing character
with them could join us. This Won't Cost You an Arm and a Leg...Oh no!

For all the things I mentioned above, the price of the course is only $497

Need a Payment Plan? Take Advantage of the 3 Pay Option!

There are no hidden costs, that's it! I will be teaching you EVERYTHING I KNOW about raising responsible,
well mannered, diligent, grateful and loving children. It has literally taken me 19
years to learn all that I am going to share with you and much of what you will learn will save you
lots of headaches in the future!

Your Kids are Worth It

Having emotionally healthy adults is every parent's goal, but FEW parents actually know how to accomplish this. WHY? Because nobody taught us.

The lessons in the Building Character and Strong Work Ethics in Your Children Program have
provided results to thousands around the United States and now they are made available to you
in a premium package that includes 4 intensive teaching modules, with Q&A time, 7 Mega bonuses and 3 graduation bonuses.

So, What do you say? Are YOU Ready to Build a Strong Family? Click on the Yes, I Want to Join button
and START building a Powerful and Amazing Family Today!

Looking Forward to Helping You!

P.S. If you don't take action now, I can't guarantee the same price or a spot in the future...which means you'll have to continue to deal with the same 'ol, same 'ol...
For Pete's sake, don't keep testing the waters with faulty parenting techniques. THESE ARE YOUR CHILDREN AND YOUR LIFE! You only have a few years to do this right and when they are gone, they are gone! If you don't act now, the bigger they are, the harder they fall... What are you waiting for? Join me now!